5 Most important emotional issues in the Twin Flame journey
All those who have been experiencing a Twin Flame connection know that this experience is extremely draining emotionally and so many times we all have questioned our own sanity! However the more we progress and get further and further in this journey, we realize that if we really look within with awareness, there are certain particular emotional issues that are challenging us.
Different people will have different issues, all would not have all the same issues and different people will experience them with different intensity. Every pair will have a different set of emotional challenges. However, in spite of this journey being different yet it is the same for everyone! It is amazing to see how from these emotional issues we learn and we grow and finally, we realize what LOVE is all about – what YOU are all about and how you are ONE with the Divine Supreme!!
I would like to list all those main important and most common emotional issues which we particularly face on this journey! All are completely interlinked with each other.
1. A) Fear
Fear of rejection –
This comes from another emotional issue like ‘lack of self-worth’, (I am not good-looking enough, I am poor, I am not as educated as them, big age gap) or some past negative pattern. Past failed relationships or even some past life emotional patterns.
Fear of Not being worth him/her –
This lack of self-worth is found in both the Twin Flames at the same time. When you are thinking you are not good enough, your twin flame too may be thinking the same. Twin Flames always tend to think that their Twin Flame is too perfect and they ack something to come up to “their level”.
Fear of abandonment –
This is too there quite commonly, as many twin flames are in a very complex scenario. Some are married, in some cases, both the twin flames are married. Many Twin Flames are not officially dating, some have a big age gap. What is he/she leaves me or stops talking to me due to another person involved? – is a big part of the emotional challenges of many.
Fear of losing them –
This I think is the biggest fear of all. A twin flame can not imagine or digest even the thought of losing their twin flame. It feels like dying a thousand deaths.
1. B) Guilt
Guilt – As this connection challenges many social norms, Guilt can be the most prominent emotion in this journey as well.
The guilt of not doing justice and being loyal with your spouse, kids, and family. The guilt of having feelings for someone else apart from your spouse. The guilt of being the second person in someone else’s marriage, or a possible home breaker. This guilt is there, even when Twin Flames are not actually seeing each other or involved in a committed relationship. It is purely based on your intense emotions towards your twin flame.
Overcome your fear & guilt with Acceptance!
With Acceptance! It can help you overcome your fears and guilt.
Accept yourself the way you are!! There is nothing lacking in you. Accept your love for your twin flame. Accept the truth in your heart. It is okay to feel what you feel. Accept that there is nothing wrong with feeling like this in spite of being married. It is better to be truthful to yourself first than sulking inside and blaming yourself for your feelings.
Accept your twin flame the way he/she is. Accept his/her behavior (towards you or towards the world) Accept differences between you two (age/ religion/ culture/ thinking/ nationality etc.)
When you ACCEPT, you stop resisting inside. When you stop resistance, you start vibrating higher than before. You get into the state of progressing further. Till you are resisting, all your energy goes into struggling with inner emotions not letting you further anywhere.
2. Expectation
Expecting them to behave in a certain way. Expecting them to reply to your texts. Expecting them to talk with you or commit to you. Expecting them to confront their love for you. Expecting them to be awakened. Expecting them to progress spiritually. Expecting them to be there with you to support you emotionally by offering their shoulder. Expecting them to leave their marriage or karmic partner… expecting them loving you back the same way you do!!
Knowingly or unknowingly we have so many expectations!! The list can go on and on and on…!!
And what happens when that expectation is not fulfilled?
We get disappointed, hurt, we take it too personally, we start doubting, our ego gets hurt…!! I am not saying that you should not expect anything from them. We are human beings after all. It is very natural for us to expect things from the one we love. But this journey precisely teaches us that ‘expecting’ is NOT the way to LOVE.
Overcome your expectations with Patience!
Patience teaches you to accept that things can happen in a different order than the one you have in mind. Learn to be patient and do not become a person who arrives at conclusions immediately. Twin Flame journey is not an easy one and one must develop the patience to navigate through it. The divine always tests you by throwing some tasks at you!!
3. Doubt
Do I really need to talk anything about this? 🙂
Every Twin Flame doubts – ‘Am I a twin flame of someone? Is this person my twin flame? ..or not!? Does my twin flame really love me or not!? Are we really going to be in a union or not?’
This kind of – doubting and overcoming the doubt – cycle happens many many times, which eventually makes you reach a place, where you do not need any validation for being a twin flame or someone is your twin flame. Your twin flame loves you or not, you will be in union or not. You know it.
Overcome your doubt with Faith!
Going through numerous phases of having a doubt makes your FAITH stronger. Your faith in the divine, your faith in your own thinking, your faith in your twin flame, faith in your union…
When you have a doubt, you start seeking answers. In that process, you learn to let go of the logical analysis. And after all that mess, distress, agony, uncertainty…. you again come to a point where you truly realize and believe that this person IS your twin flame, he/she loves you and as per the divine plan, your union is inevitable. This process is a vital aspect of the twin flame journey.
4. Resentment
Most Twin Flames separate with intense but seemingly most unreasonable fights. The anger and resentment aggravate from one or both sides resulting in separation. Like Fear, this emotion too can sprout from past life traumas, experiences, past relationships, family history, and behavioural patterns. Twin flame journey triggers these deep-rooted issues and brings it o surface so that you can deal with it and overcome it. We often tend to blame our twin flame for behaving in such a way that it takes our anger on the surface, but it might be just working out your way.
This resentment puts twin flames so much in pain that ultimately they reach a place that they have not another way but to learn how to let go…and forgive the other.
Overcome your resentment with Forgiveness!
In many cases, it becomes essential to let go and forgive because otherwise, it becomes impossible to deal with the pain. Forgiveness holds great power! So the moment you really forgive someone from your heart, you heal!! You become purer, calmer, and get closer to the state of your natural being.
5. Judgment
As we are human beings staying on planet earth in “duality” in the 3rd dimension, we operate from our minds. Our mind is constantly judging whatever is happening around us and we are thinking about good-bad, right-wrong, yes-no, and so on!! Most of us get so tangled in analysing how our twin flame behaved with us, and why. We judge and analyse every smallest thing done by them – only to examine what are they up to!
They did not pick the call – you start judging. They did not say anything to you – your mind starts analysing at the back. They are not ready to leave their karmic partner – um..well. Aren’t they awakened yet? Why? How? and so on… .. …
Overcome your judgment with Love!
The twin flame journey challenges you here too!! It teaches us that if you really want to learn about LOVE – you need to SENSE things from your SOUL and not SEE things through your MIND which is judgemental. The moment you STOP judging, your heart place fills up with LOVE. You become peaceful, happy, full of love!!
To sum up, the Twin flame journey is all about sorting these issues within yourself. Have faith in the Divine, belief in yourself, do not doubt, and take one step at a time!!
What have been your ways and experience when connecting with your higher self? How has it helped you so far in your life? I would love to hear from you about your experiences. Please leave a comment about your experience in the comments section below at the bottom of the page. (click on ‘view comments’) You can also follow me on Instagram for daily Quotes
Related videos on YouTube
Most Important Emotional Issues in Twin Flame Journey – 1 Fear & Guilt – YouTube
Most Important Emotional Issues in Twin Flame Journey – 2 Expectation – YouTube
Most Important Emotional Issues in Twin Flame Journey – 3 Doubt – YouTube
Most Important Emotional Issues in the Twin Flame Journey: 4 Resentment – YouTube
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Great article Pradnya. It’s good to see someone focussing on the essential work on the TF path. This is, first and foremost, a spiritual path – and many Twins seems to forget that.
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Like most TF’s, i have experienced every single negative and positive emotion in this journey you listed. I have learned a lot but i have a lot to learn. I havent seen him in about 8 months. I would probably have seen him sooner if this current crisis hadn’t occured. But im not angry, or mad. I respect the current affairs. I firmly believe it happened for a reason on an immense global scale.
These days, my thoughts and emotikn are up and down, i know…its not new. I would feel great, feel full of love toward him in spirit, writing more poetry and dusting off my creative skills as i develop new ones. And then i get disturbing visions of him and i in a toxic dance, feel old insecurities i thought i left behind, and just knowing deep down if i saw him, i know i would run😩. So i have a long way to go. Just reading ur list of the common insecurities triggered things i wasnt ready to face….yet. But at theend of the day, i still have hope it will get better. No it wont be perfect, it will get bumpy and messy for sure, patience and love will and has helped me through. I dont have a goal, at least concerning him. I just want to be a better version of myself and enjoy me again. Accept myself again. May he and his family stay in good health and be hopeful that things cam only get better in these crazy times.